A message to parents in abusive relationships

If you’re a parent experiencing family violence, family violence might also affect the relationship that you have with your children. It can affect your ability to give your children the love and attention they need.

If this is your situation, it’s important to know that family violence is never your fault. The person using family violence is responsible for it and the way it affects your family. 

Family violence can harm your ability to parent and your relationship with your children in several ways.

Unfortunately, this can push your children to look for love in the wrong places. This exposes them to dangers such as rape, STDs, unwanted pregnancies, heart break, drugs etc. This will leave them more broken than they were, and this will only add to your problems. Imagine dealing with an abusive partner and a lost child. 

Please show love to your children this valentine. Find time to talk to them and reassure them that you love them. Be their date on valentine's day. Take them to dinner and buy them gifts. Please tell them that everything will be fine. They need to hang in there until you're stable. 

We can't afford to have a continuing cycle of broken people in the society. It has to get better, and it starts with you and I. 

Show love to your children on valentine's day before some rogues lie to them. And please make plans to walk away from that abusive relationship. You deserve peace of mind. 

#SpeakUPCampaignDay11
#EndDomesticViolence

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

SOME COMMON TERMINOLOGIES IN HUMAN RIGHT

Before I tell you about the rights you are entitled to as a Nigerian citizen, it’s important that I explain some terms, to make sure you understand our subsequent discussions as we make progress. There are many terms in Human Rights Law, But I’ll explain just a few which are very common. However, do not hesitate to ask questions wherever you need clarifications.  HUMAN RIGHTS : Human rights are the basic rights and freedoms to which human beings are entitled; the rights people are entitled to simply because they are human beings, irrespective of their citizenship, nationality, race, ethnicity, language, sex or abilities. They ensure people can live freely in the society. They ensure that people are treated fairly and with dignity, not like slaves or animals. Just because you’re a human being, you’re entitled to these rights and they are inalienable; they cannot be taken away. INALIENABLE :  Simply put, it means something that cannot be taken away. Human rights cannot be taken ...
Read more

RIGHT TO LIFE IN NIGERIA; CAPITAL PUNISHMENT AND EUTHANASIA.

Nigeria is a state rich in human resources, cultural diversity, religious animosity, electoral violence, corruption and such other favourable wahalas which stand Nigeria out amongst the good Nations of this world. (Sarcasm intended). But perhaps one other area which Nigeria has really stepped up its game and is working overtime on, is improvement in the manner, and increase in the number of human rights abuses daily. After the now celebrated “Lekki shooting,” we can agree that Nigeria has done enough to deserve recognition as a top human right abusing state. Kudos to us on this. On the other hand, so many Nigerians are either misinformed or not informed at all about their rights. In comes theblogspotwithfifi to see if she can help us in this regard. (That is if Nigerians will even read). This week laidis, we are very briefly considering issues which reasonably emerge from a discussion on human rights. These include the burning issue of capital punishment and euthanasia. Ngwanu lets di...
Read more

Freedom of Thought, Conscience and Religion.

Image
Have you ever wondered whether the fundamental rights enshrined in the Constitution apply to us at all as citizens of Nigeria, abi we are just walking around like zombies? I think about it a lot. Imagine the right to freedom of thought, conscience and religion; a very interesting concept, yet we cannot enjoy it. It’s either the government is clamping down on us, religious extremists think it’s their right to kill ‘infidels’, or trolls who have established their thrones on social media won’t let us be. What does this right entail? To what extent can you exercise it? Who are the violators and how do they go about their evil ways? The Constitution in section 38 (1) provides for secularity in Nigeria, guaranteeing the people’s right to religious freedom including freedom to change religion or belief and manifest and propagate one’s religion or belief in worship, teaching, practice and observance. So this right is in two aspects: * The right to hold or change religious or other beliefs. Thi...
Read more