STOP VICTIM BLAMING

People often blame victims of domestic violence. You hear people say, "what did she do?" "Why did he get her angry?" "Why did you cheat on her?" These questions are rather insensitive and irrelevant. There is no justification for violence. If you're tired of your spouse's behavior, it's more reasonable to walk away than brutalize or kill them. No one has any right to beat up or maltreat their spouse. 

Bad things can happen to anyone. So the next time you find yourself wondering what someone else did to bring on their misfortune, take a moment to consider the psychological attributions and biases that affect your judgment. Rather than blame the victim, try putting yourself in their shoes and perhaps try a little empathy instead. Report abusers; don't blame victims. 

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