MEN SUFFER DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TOO

Meet a 31 year old police officer called Dan. He was not born with this frightening appearance. What you see is the result of an argument he had with his wife.

Dan says it seemed like a normal argument like any married couple would have. He later left for work. He had a night shift so he came back home the day after at 05:30 am and went straight to the bed to have some sleep.

That was the moment his wife poured acid solution on his face. Then she ran away. But it was not enough for her to spoil his face, she also acted so that he couldn't escape the bedroom. She had poured water on the floor and connected it to electricity. As soon as Dan stepped on the floor, he was electrocuted. 

His neighbours came and found him in despair. They rushed him to hospital and luckily his life was saved, but unfortunately not his eyes. Dan permanently lost his sight and is now completely blind.

According to him, every single day he lives is a struggle, and this is because someone could not manage her anger and emotions. Dan is just one of the many men that have suffered extreme domestic violence.

Sadly, men are expected to keep quiet about the pain they face in their relationships. This has to stop. 

Source: Shine Liberia


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